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New York Press interview with Sam Vaknin on narcissism
William Saroyan: The 'Monstrous' Narcissist
Behind Narcissism - Fear and Loathing
San Francisco Chronicle and LA Times, October 20, 2002
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The following are articles I have found in the media that discuss narcissists or narcissism. Inclusion does not mean I agree or disagree with what is said.
Moseley tells grads how he broke narcissism's chains(The word is used twice in this headline. It is important to recognize how the perception of a narcissist is formed by the media's use of the word. The example here is unusual.)
Olympic skiing champion Jonny Moseley found mortar
boards no more daunting than moguls Friday when he
delivered a heartily applauded commencement address
at UC Berkeley.
With his good-natured grin and spiky bird's-nest haircut,
the popular gold- medal winner from Tiburon won over
the audience with self-effacing humor and a touching
confession of a life of narcissism that ended only this
past February at the Winter Olympics in Utah.
Some Cal students earlier grumbled that the 26-year-old
Moseley, who dropped out of UCLA, didn't fit behind the
commencement rostrum for the nation's top-ranked
public university, but that view was not evident among
the nearly 350 appreciative seniors in black gowns and
about 2,500 other people gathered under a sunny spring
sky at the Greek Theatre Friday afternoon.
No diplomas are handed out at the ceremony, and not
all seniors attend. About 6,500 undergraduates will have
graduated at some time during the current school year,
receiving their degrees at separate departmental
graduations.
Before Moseley's speech, Chancellor Robert Berdahl told
the skier, "You may think you have little in common with
last year's commencement speaker, Janet Reno . . . but
you do share one achievement. You've hosted 'Saturday
Night Live.' "
Moseley, whose nonskiing appearances have tended
more toward TV talk shows and cereal boxes, won
many laughs at the opening of his short speech.
He acknowledged being surprised when asked by a
committee of graduating seniors to appear. "What?" he
asked himself. "Me speak at the Berkeley
commencement? Is Maya Angelou speaking at the X
Games? What's going on here?"
But, he added, "In fact, today I'm fulfilling a lifelong
dream to participate in Cal's commencement . . . I can
remember the last time UC Berkeley contacted me. It
was through the admissions department."
He soon took a more serious tone when he described his
response to the public adulation showered on him after
his inspiring gold medal victory at the 1998 Nagano
Olympics. It was America's first gold of the Games and
gave a big boost to national spirits.
The flood of endorsements and praise made him feel
"constantly happy," he said, "because people were
constantly reassuring me of my righteous self. But as
time went on, the intensity of the recognition started to
fade, and as a result, so did my happiness.
"So there I was a few years after the Olympics, my
celebrity's dwindling, satisfaction waning -- I need a fix."
His craving was what drove him to return to the
Olympics this year, he said.
Moseley cited the book, "Culture of Narcissism" by
Christopher Lasch, saying he fit the definition of a
narcissist as "someone who depends on others to
validate their self-esteem and cannot live without an
admiring audience."
But he didn't realize his narcissism until the moment he
conquered it, which came when he persisted in
performing his famous "dinner roll" spin in Utah, despite
knowing it would probably cost him a medal.
He then stepped out from behind the podium to the
front of the stage to demonstrate the move in slow
motion, much to the audience's delight.
He placed fourth at the Games with no medal, but he
had performed "the best dinner roll I'd ever done," and it
felt "like the greatest day in my life," he said. He said he
learned to let success be defined in his own terms.
"If you do not depend on awards, money or other
validations to dictate your well-being and your measure
of success," he said, "you will own your own happiness."
Healdsburg pedophile priest untreatable, expert says
Pamela J. Podger, Chronicle Staff Writer Thursday, May 16, 2002
A psychological profile says an inactive Roman Catholic
priest convicted of sexual misconduct is an untreatable
pedophile who doesn't recognize his own deviant
behavior.
Donald Wren Kimball, 58, was convicted April 16 of two
counts of felony lewd conduct with a 13-year-old
parishioner in 1981 at St. John's Church in Healdsburg.
The trial was unusual, as most such cases are resolved
before they get to a jury.
After a battery of tests and two interviews in early May
with Kimball at the Sonoma County jail, psychologist
Thomas Cushing noted in his 14-page report that Kimball
demonstrated pedophiliac and narcissistic disorders.
Cushing noted that Kimball's reasoning and judgment
demonstrated "significant impairment" concerning his
actions with the molestation victim and six
corroborating witnesses from 1971 to 1981. Instead, he
had "pronounced use of the immature psychological
defenses of denial and repression."
Cushing wrote that Kimball failed to show any remorse
for his actions, empathy for his victims or insight on how
his deviant behavior harmed the families, church and
community.
In addition, Cushing wrote, Kimball's unwillingness to
accept responsibility for his actions would be an
impediment to successful rehabilitation.
"Mr. Kimball evidenced no compassion or empathy for
the youth he molested," Cushing wrote. "Rather, his
comments were self-serving in nature and focused solely
on his denial of any inappropriate conduct with any
minors. It is this examiner's opinion Mr. Kimball is not a
suitable candidate for sex offender treatment at this
time."
In Cushing's opinion, Kimball also should not receive
probation, since he abused "his position of trust as a
priest of the Catholic Church by exploiting and molesting
underage youth for his selfish sexual urges and desires."
Kimball's sentencing, scheduled for Wednesday, was
delayed until June 7 while Sonoma County Superior Court
Judge Gayle Guynup considers a motion for new trial.