A victim of narcissistic abuse? You may have given up hope. Remember this, hope hasn’t given up on you, neither have your friends and the many friends you haven’t met yet. We are always… Continue Reading
Controllers, Manipulators, Manipulation and Surviving Some are manipulated, controlled, harassed, or assaulted in some way and can’t figure out how they got there or how to get out. What is confusing is that the perpetrator tries to make them feel… Continue Reading
One of the most important books I have ever read is about divorce in Israel. Mom is a California girl, met Dad in grad school. He was Israeli. They married, moved to Israel, had a kid, built a house and… Continue Reading
Viktor Frankl was an amazing man who changed the therapy profession. I wrote about Frankl and logotherapy in my book in a section called Dark Days, Dangerous Actions: I Am Taken By Surprise There is no reason or need for… Continue Reading
“You are permitted in times of great danger to walk with the devil until you have crossed the bridge.” Bulgarian Proverb MANIPULATION Sam Vaknin, a narcissist, shares a view on manipulation: “One of the favourite tools of manipulation in… Continue Reading
Had enough? Fed up? Told you aren’t smart enough or good enough? Well, c’mon girl, time to get your power back. In so many ways, for too long, women have ceded power to men because they just have to have… Continue Reading
Dating,porn,trust,being a good partner – this slice of life essay has it all. Genders have issues – we all know it – this just brings a few things front and center about it! Women – is he: screwed up? … Continue Reading
This is a true story of failure and success and what happened in-between. It’s a story of why a goal can make you happier and how failure is not your enemy. Losing your confidence is not the end of the… Continue Reading
Understanding Orders of Protection (A guest blog post because your safety is important.) Surviving abusive and dangerous people sometimes necessitates taking strong legal action. If you or someone you know has been the victim of domestic violence there are… Continue Reading
Did Ashley Madison just enter your life? Maybe it did and you are shocked or perhaps finding your partner’s email there was only validating what you suspected. Either way it hurts like hell. Your trust is gone,… Continue Reading