A victim of narcissistic abuse? You may have given up hope. Remember this, hope hasn’t given up on you, neither have your friends and the many friends you haven’t met yet. We are always… Continue Reading
Viktor Frankl was an amazing man who changed the therapy profession. I wrote about Frankl and logotherapy in my book in a section called Dark Days, Dangerous Actions: I Am Taken By Surprise There is no reason or need for… Continue Reading
This is a true story of failure and success and what happened in-between. It’s a story of why a goal can make you happier and how failure is not your enemy. Losing your confidence is not the end of the… Continue Reading
Understanding Orders of Protection (A guest blog post because your safety is important.) Surviving abusive and dangerous people sometimes necessitates taking strong legal action. If you or someone you know has been the victim of domestic violence there are… Continue Reading
Word Salad and Stealth Transaction Fees Oh how clever the narcissist: learning the language of manipulation so that it appears normal. They will act relaxed, laid back, and even serene with you. But the tab… Continue Reading
Did Ashley Madison just enter your life? Maybe it did and you are shocked or perhaps finding your partner’s email there was only validating what you suspected. Either way it hurts like hell. Your trust is gone,… Continue Reading
Sometimes you have to be blunt with your friends to get the message across. I refer to GFE here which means, according to Urban Dictionary, Girl Friend Experience from a prostitute. (No, I won’t deconstruct… Continue Reading
That’s what Palo Alto family law attorney Kirby Burnside said as we were reading a letter from opposing counsel Jeffrey Kaufman. I pointed out lies and she said, “Lawyers lie, get over it.” Recently I filed a bar complaint… Continue Reading
I If we grew up with a parent who suffered from narcissistic personality disorder ( click here to read my article on this) it is likely to have taken a heavy toll on our emotional development. One of the most… Continue Reading
Controllers, Manipulators, Manipulation and Surviving Some are manipulated, controlled, harassed, or assaulted in some way and can’t figure out how they got there or how to get out. What is confusing is that the perpetrator tries to make them feel… Continue Reading