When opposing counsel would call and vow to grind me into the ground until I was gone and the rent was unpaid and the kid had chest pains and his father said when I tried… Continue Reading
Narcissists often use words in a manner best described as word salad. They pick up cues from context and the environment and insert them into a conversation even if using them inappropriately. By doing so this makes them look as… Continue Reading
I’m all for Bitcoin, the cryptocurrency. I use it at my local coffee bar here in Palo Alto, CA. I go to the Bitcoin meetups. I just bought vitamins online using Bitcoin. I accept it on my other website and maybe soon… Continue Reading
It’s a Tuesday morning in February. I’m in bed, awakening, and as consciousness returns I am tumbling off the cliff again. Over and over I fall and I can’t pull myself up and out. The fear increases, escalates as if shot through with… Continue Reading
WHY I WRITE ABOUT NARCISSISM I was in a conference room with two attorneys and my former husband. On the chalkboard was this quote: “The significant problems we face cannot be solved at the same level of thinking we were… Continue Reading
The Collaborative Law God and Code Condom I want to write about funny things. I like funny and I like laughing. However, as much as I try, as I wander down the highways and byways of this journey of my… Continue Reading
Whatever you do DON’T PANIC Susan Russo calls it There is Life After Whats His Name. Get on and over the past hurts and pain and reclaim the joy. Depression is situational and temporary but if you can’t budge… Continue Reading
The system of family law is inherently flawed. It is adversarial where it need not be, and when it needs to be strong it often fails the client. Civil Codes and family laws are ignored. Lawyers perjure themselves for their… Continue Reading
The Smartest Advice is Often From a Peer and Not a Lawyer When Divorcing a Narcissist People send me information, tips and tricks to share with others because it has worked for them. Here’s an email from a woman whose… Continue Reading
Being Right and Proving It: Engage Your ‘Fight Back’ Gene In a speech at Wheaton College, Carl Sagan spoke of how we share 99.6% of our active genes with chimpanzees. He described male chimps as aggressive, female chimps he says… Continue Reading