Life After…Moving To Happy You Have Many Possible Futures – Which One Will You Choose? You may have been told for so long that everything was your fault, you can’t do anything right, you’re not smart, so that all of a sudden you don’t… Continue Reading
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Domestic Violence and Orders of Protection
Understanding Orders of Protection (A guest blog post because your safety is important.) Surviving abusive and dangerous people sometimes necessitates taking strong legal action. If you or someone you know has been the victim of domestic violence there are… Continue Reading
Getting Real With A Jerk and How My GFE Saved Me
Sometimes you have to be blunt with your friends to get the message across. I refer to GFE here which means, according to Urban Dictionary, Girl Friend Experience from a prostitute. (No, I won’t deconstruct… Continue Reading
I’m Fine, What’s Wrong With You?
When someone thinks they know everything about you – and they get it all wrong it creates some cognitive dissonance. I read this and think, “Who is this? Who thinks like this?” A while ago… Continue Reading
Narcissistic Parent
I If we grew up with a parent who suffered from narcissistic personality disorder ( click here to read my article on this) it is likely to have taken a heavy toll on our emotional development. One of the most… Continue Reading
Narcissism and Divorce: Word Salad
Narcissists often use words in a manner best described as word salad. They pick up cues from context and the environment and insert them into a conversation even if using them inappropriately. By doing so this makes them look as… Continue Reading
The Clueless Mate’s Guide to Staying In a Relationship
Women – Is he screwed up? Dysfunctional? Distant? Cold? Emotionally unavailable.? Then get this guidebook in his hands now and if it doesn’t work, get out your courage and your walking shoes.MEN:Yes, you – the one with one hand on… Continue Reading
Exposing Corruption
DOES CORRUPTION MATTER? Yes. I write about corrupt people. I expose them, using their own words and deeds. Nothing else. I hold up the mirror and show them their reflection. They do not like it. They complain. I do this… Continue Reading
Hiding Assets With Bitcoin
I’m all for Bitcoin, the cryptocurrency. I use it at my local coffee bar here in Palo Alto, CA. I go to the Bitcoin meetups. I just bought vitamins online using Bitcoin. I accept it on my other website and maybe soon… Continue Reading
Been Down So Long it Looks Like Up to Me
It’s a Tuesday morning in February. I’m in bed, awakening, and as consciousness returns I am tumbling off the cliff again. Over and over I fall and I can’t pull myself up and out. The fear increases, escalates as if shot through with… Continue Reading