Microclimates of My Soul
Warm weather is the end of the winter of my discontent. I flourish in sun but not so much the winter rains of my home in the San Francisco Bay Area. My pessimism doesn’t trump my optimism during winter but… Continue Reading
After the Pain, The Power and the Pleasure
Had enough? Fed up? Told you aren’t smart enough or good enough? Well, c’mon girl, time to get your power back. In so many ways, for too long, women have ceded power to men because they just have to have… Continue Reading
Been Down So Long It Looks Like Up To Me
I Got Up and Kicked the Bastards in the Balls. (This painful memory, with language no one who knows me will believe I am using, is dedicated to the men and women victimized by revenge filled spouses, dirty lawyers and… Continue Reading
Repair the Damage of Divorce
Repair the Damage “Historical and moral justice is served, and moral repair is made possible, only when the healing of wounds matters.” Thane Rosenbaum, The Myth of Moral Justice What a ride it has been. If anyone had said when I was born,… Continue Reading
Dating Issues with a Narcissist
Dating,porn,trust,being a good partner – this slice of life essay has it all. Genders have issues – we all know it – this just brings a few things front and center about it! Women – is he: screwed up? … Continue Reading
Get Happy, You Are Worth It.
This is a true story of failure and success and what happened in-between. It’s a story of why a goal can make you happier and how failure is not your enemy. Losing your confidence is not the end of the… Continue Reading
Life’s Little Playbook
You choose. Do we have the glass half full playbook or the glass half empty? The silver lining playbook or the nimbus cloud? It helps to be born with the optimism gene and let life’s little terrors bounce off your… Continue Reading
Narcissism and Accountability: Is It Possible?
This is a guest blog that will blow you away with the depth and breadth of knowledge and insight to a question on many people’s minds about how accountable a narcissist is for their behavior. The twists and… Continue Reading
Life After…Moving To Happy You Have Many Possible Futures – Which One Will You Choose? You may have been told for so long that everything was your fault, you can’t do anything right, you’re not smart, so that all of a sudden you don’t… Continue Reading
Domestic Violence and Orders of Protection
Understanding Orders of Protection (A guest blog post because your safety is important.) Surviving abusive and dangerous people sometimes necessitates taking strong legal action. If you or someone you know has been the victim of domestic violence there are… Continue Reading